Ludacris and Dwayne Wade father children outside of their relationships!

Here's the T, on these two super star celebs! I'll never understand the carelessness.



Dwayne Wade's new Baby Mother!

TMZ Sports has obtained the birth certificate for Dwyane Wade's brand new son ... which shows the kid's name is Xavier Zechariah Wade ... and he was only born last month.

Of course, Wade recently acknowledged that he had a kid with a woman who isn't his fiancee Gabrielle Union. There are reports that Wade and Union were on a break when the child was conceived.

Now, we know the kid was born in Los Angeles on Nov. 10, 2013 ... just 6 weeks before Wade popped the question to Gabrielle, who he's been dating since 2009.

According to the birth certificate, Wade's baby mama is 30-year-old Aja Metoyer. The details of their relationship are basically unknown, except the obvious fact they have a kid together.

Aja has two other children by Damon Wayan's Jr.



And then there's LUDACRIS'S situation...

"I CAN'T PAY MUCH, BUT I'M THE DADDY" smh..

LUDACRISLudacris didn't use protection when he banged some chick, but he's taking precautions now ... because he wants to legally establish his paternity and then set a hard limit on his child support.

Ludacris has been in a long-term relationship with Eudoxie -- pronounced kinda like the book in the Bible (don't ask). But Luda took a break from Eudo long enough to get Tamika Fuller preggo.

Cai Bella Bridges was born December 9th. And here's where the plot thickens.

It seems Ludacris knows he's the daddy, but he's worried Tamika will go in for the kill. So he's filed legal docs -- obtained by TMZ -- claiming he's only pulling in $25,842.41 a month on average. Under Georgia law ... his monthly child support payment would be set at $1,754.66.

FYI ... Forbes says Luda is worth $12 mil ... but that seem real low.

And then Luda wants to run from the child support, well I don't feel sorry for you!


Let me start by saying NO ONE IS PERFECT! Ok, now on to the bullshit!

SERIOUSLY??? You may call it cheating or slipping up but I call it stupid, and immature. Grow up, this isn't college ball, and Ludacris you did not start rapping yesterday. Time to check yourself so we can create great relationships again and show these up and coming young celebs that we do eventually grow up and take life serious.

It's one thing to cheat on your significant other, but to impregnate another woman while doing so is totally irresponsible. I will never put blame in one place, but when you're a celebrity or a star athlete you have to be extra careful when having sexual intercourse outside your main relationship.
Today we are so motivated and sucker punched by image that we forget our reality. It's clear that it doesn't matter how bad the main girlfriend is and that's bad meaning good, it's clear men can still stray, and go hard for the next chick. While the saying "men will be men" seems to plaque the whole monogamous idea, the answer to that is "know better do better" which most men are familiar with but choose to work with their cravings as apposed to their intuition which is their truth. Now not only do men have an issue with this so do women, but in this case I'm speaking of the male counter in light of these two situations.


It's 2014, it's time to put respect back into the relationship. We all want what we want but don't want to give anything to get it. We need for the other person to understand us and be obligated to our needs, but the same must be given back. Today we are so selfish and insensitive to others needs, which in turn causes cheating, unhealthy conversations between the two involved, lying and other unhealthy habits that tend to eventually lead to mistrust and onto the b word, the Breakup! I understand things aren't perfect, but sometimes we have the ONE and don't know it because we become so picky as if we have lots of choices out there for the ONE.
Yes, we have lots of choices for dates, sex, tricking and whatever else, but our choices for co parenting, sharing happiness and grief, finances, and being understand, the choices are slim to none.

It's time to be grown like our parents were, they kept the family together even if marriage wasn't on the table. Yes there was bickering and disagreements but for the most part, the woman was allowed to be just that,a woman, and the man keeps the love flowing in the family by showing strength in all areas. He doesn't get so frustrated by a woman's tantrum that it makes him go outside the relationship, and if he does trust the other woman is just that, the other woman. I remember my father hearing my mother throw a fits about something or the other, and then figuring out how to fix it so his woman would not be so mad about whatever the situation was.

Today, men throw quiet tantrums, instead of communicating with your woman men shut down and don't say anything, which to me is a waste of valuable time that could be used to mend the problem. Silence is golden, but it can also result in nothing! When we start cheating either physically or intimately without sex with another, and our partner becomes aware of it, it puts that big black cloud in the air, that no one likes to see. TRUST, LOYALTY are now on the table, and it's almost impossible to fix those things unless the love is so strong the cheatee decides to give things another chance. However, there will always be that stain whenever you walk out the door of "where are they really going, who are they texting, who did they have to walk outside to talk to on the phone" My point is this, if you can help it, don't fuck up a good thing even if the good thing seems bad at the time, look deeper than your pride and ego, and use your heart to guide you. To me the only real sucker is the one who can't admit that they are a sucker for the person they love.